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As in one of his books, Tigress Luv wrote, “The pain experienced during a breakup is as individual as the millions of people who go through it”. This statement has a great deal of truth – indeed, each of us is experiencing the end of the relationship in very own way.

 
Many of you will cry, many of you will feel anger, grief, sadness and inner pain. Some of you will not be able to imagine future life without your ex and will be totally broken. Pain can be even greater, if you were truly in love or you were in serious and long-term relationship.
Unfortunately, it is not always as we wanted or planned and we will have to accept the fact, the relationship is over. Life goes on and maybe you will treat it like old and far from the truth cliché, but time heals all wounds. Sometimes it takes few days, weeks, event months or years, however one day you will wake up with the feeling that you moved on and you do not feel the pain and the bond with your ex completely disappeared.
But now, you are forced to cope with the pain. The most effective and the easiest way is to think about something another – you have to find an activity that completely absorb you, make you feel better and is really helpful when you want to relax. It can be reading, painting, any kind of crafting or sports – something in which you can fully engage.
If you cannot deal with your emotions, try to finds someone with whom you can talk honestly about everything or just give vent to your emotions – tears and shout is nothing to be shame of.

Breaking up is always really hard – you do not know what to say, to not hurt your partner and you would like to end it as fast as possible. To make it easier, we often reach for usual breakup clichés, but you have to know it is the worst solution. It shows the other person the lack of respect, that you are not honest, you are trying to be fake-polite and you are saying just something to end it as soon as possible. If you want to know, what phrases  to avoid, read the text below – we want to present you most popular and the biggest breakup clichés ever.
Standard breakup, no matter who is the dumper , boy or girl, start with “we need to talk”. After that, everybody knows, that they will hear something unpleasant. In the case of relationships and breakups it may most likely be:
•    “it is not you, it is me” – I bet half of you ended your relationship whit this phrase or were dumped in this way
•    “We want other things” – sometimes it may be honest (e.g. when your girlfriend want to make things more serious and you just want to have fun, hang out together etc.), but in most cases it is just one of the fastest way to say I want to dump you
•    “We cannot longer be together” – just it. One phrase and everything is over. Without any explanation or serious talk
•    “It is not working out for me” – another way to not say directly that your love fizzled out, that this relationship is not giving you what you expected etc.
•    “You deserve more” – in literal translation it means: “I do not know how to break up with you, so I will say I am not too good for you, to make you feel better”
The most classic, and the most popular breakup cliché, which in most cases is the ending line of breakup-talk is of course “we can still be friends” – the below the belt hit not only for boys, but also for girls, especially, when the person you are dumping is still in love with you.

In most cases, boy is the person in relationship, who is being dumped. However, we cannot generalize and put each pair of people in the same box. As it turns out, boys can also want to end the relationships and often they have got really serious reasons. If you are in this kind of situations, when you are 100% sure, that being together longer is leading to nowhere, but you have not got courage to say this to your girlfriend, try to use our few tips – they might be really helpful in lots of cases.
Probably, after everything she may think about you as a total dick. You have to try to do everything to change this and end the relationship in most polite and not mean way possible.

First of all, never and ever give her any hope, especially when she is really in love with you. Secondly, forget about this “maybe we can still be friends” thing – it does not work and may only cause only more problems or complications.
Of course, you have to make it in person – writing a letter or text is not the way! You have to show that you are a man, and you have courage to stand in front of your soon-ex-girlfriend and tell her that this is the end and you cannot longer be together.
Do not try comfort her, do not try hug her when she cries – the best way is to just say good bye after everything and go in your way. If she will try to offend you, do not go into an argument with her – she has got rights to be angry and pissed off. As you know, in this state of mind, you might say many unnecessary things, so just leave it.

Breaking with somebody is never easy, but if you make this decision you probably have your reasons. You do not feel the chemistry, it was not the true love, you both want other things or you have this feeling, that you are treated bad. If you have problem with ending the relationship read this short article – we will try to give you some handful advises how to dump your boyfriend in proper way.

First of all, you cannot never use cheap methods like dumping someone by e-mail, text or the phone. We are talking about your boyfriend, with whom you probably shared the most intimate moments of your life, spent dozens of hours and now you have no courage to dump him face to face? It is showing a huge lack of respect, so do not do that.
What is more, you have to wait for a moment, when you will be alone – do not do that in front of your friends, family or other people.

Then you have to be 100% honest with him, say the truth, say why you cannot longer be together, but still remember to be respectful and make it in a polite way. Do not use standard clichés like: ‘you deserve someone better’ or “it is about me, not about you” – you cannot treat boy who was important for you in this way.
If you want to break up, but you do not want to totally cut your contacts, you should be convinced that your ex-boyfriend is ok with that. Hanging out with you may be really hard for him and can give him false hope. Sometimes it is just better to not see each other for couple of weeks, event months – time surely will cure the pain.

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